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rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
8/22/2014 6:21 am

    Quoting ImHotBrnEyes:
    I have a problem with this message ctr saying I have messages when I actually don't? How to clear them? Are they from users who sent them then deactivated their accts? I would also prefer if you went back to the old msg system was much easier to sort the msgs..Thx..
You actually DO have a message. The freaking awful new message center is NOT loading into the "All messages" category. So use the drop down and make sure it says "All Messages" and/or check for where the number 1 or whatever number of emails you have are. If you made a folder that says "Friends" and it is there you have to actually click on THAT folder to find it.

This is all again reasons I HATE the new message center. It is not user friendly, it is in fact a pain in the butt.


shaved4sex 66M
21 posts
8/24/2014 12:19 am

Your recent site improvements are laudable and do help on the regular desktop or laptop access to your site. I think you're probably all ready ahead of me on this, but I think a few more mobile or smartphone enhancements are needed to make this THE top notch site for the future.

I have just a couple of suggestions for your mobile Android app.
1) Add a link for viewing real-time video of the members broadcasting. You have a link on your full website, but no direct link for your mobile app. There are are growing number of members who do not have access to either a laptop or desktop pc, and only interact with the web through their smartphone.

2) Do the same for mobile for your Instant Messaging protocols, and update this for easier access and complete video sharing through your smartphone (Android) and iPhone apps. This would greatly increase people wanting to stay with your service over the long haul.

These suggestions are coming from someone who has been with your service off and (mostly) on since the middle of the year 2000, going on 15 years now. I've seen the bad, the good, and the ugly along the way, and I humbly make these suggestions from a long time users standpoint.

Take care and peace and prosperity to you.

Shaved4Sex
Wishing everyone the best of lust..I mean luck (both actually) in finding their dreams or desires - here and elsewhere - and hoping that your glass always remains Half-Full...and then some


freeagain45 58F
15 posts
8/26/2014 5:58 pm

Overall the message center works, but, overall notifications and updates don't show up unless you refresh your browser. This makes it difficult to respond in a timely manner to anyone sending you emails or flirts. If that issue could be resolved then I would spend more time online instead of a quick check and then logging out. Having to keep checking to see who's sent me something isn't going to make me hang out and flirt.


FreeAgain and loving it!


bsucocksucker 40M
2 posts
8/27/2014 7:25 am

I have tired contacting customer services and still have yet to get any answers. So here it goes. Don't know if this fully relates to the messages center changes and updates but I think this is a BIG PROBLEM[/SIZE].

The Instant Messenger App has changed what it shows you on the Who's Online Feature . Some time Last Week it changes, and no matter how you change your setting nothing works to bring back the full list.

Everyone I spoken too is annoyed with this change I have even talked to people I know through other means when both of us are on the Instant messenger but still cant see each other.

This might be a change where you no longer letting men see other men unless they have it marked in their profile that they are interested in men. But a lot of men don't share that info with everyone and still want to be seen by other men, and see other men. Though there are guys who are gay or bi in the profile who I cant see on the instant messenger app when I can see they are online and on it due to their profile so what ever new Filter you added is not working right anyways,

Please, please, please, please change things back to the way they were just barely over a week ago before what ever it is that you all did. Last time the Instant Messenger App did this sort of thing there was a major decline in users, even the regular web page usages dropped of dramatically and it took way to long to gain back. Even I stopped using the site as much and would HATE for this to happen again.


oilguy8173 50M
33 posts
9/17/2014 3:03 am

I was wondering why when I first joined this site in 2005 it was 100% free and now it cost to be able to do anything on here


chilenito057 40M
1 post
9/28/2014 2:33 pm

mmm muy interesante gracias por el dato


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
10/5/2014 1:40 pm

A question about Gold Membership. I have been a gold member since I joined this site. I am a Member Since: 12/29/1997. Why does it cost me $ 20.95 a month to renew my Gold and a female with under one years membership and participation is offered Gold Membership for $9.95? Is there nothing about membership loyalty, or is it only gender oriented? I ask in this forum, since your telephone customer service team has no answer.

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ktnlady 69F  
9 posts
10/6/2014 2:48 pm

BEWARE... THEY WILL TAKE YOUR FRIENDS AWAY FROM YOU WITHOUT PERMISSION OR THEY WILL REFUSE TO LET YOU HAVE PEOPLE THAT IS NOT IN YOUR STATE JUST LIKE ME IN ALASKA BECAUSE ALL I AM GETTING IS CANADA WHEN I LIVE IN ALASKA, UNITED STATES..


mufasawc1 58M  
5 posts
10/5/2015 6:38 pm

WHAT THE FUCK? Messages from Passion
Passion
To improve the Gold Membership experience, reading and replying to messages are now limited to upgraded accounts. Upgrade to Gold and get full contact access including unlimited messaging, flirts, chat, and live webcams.
Icebreaker messages can still be read by both Gold and Standard members.
10/5/2015 9:15 pm... your holding email hostage to get more people to pay?
your gonna run everyone off the site with this. who the fuck thought this was a good idea? i am seeing pissed off member in the chat rooms already.
you are running this once good site into the ground trying to milk every last penny out of it!!!!


rm_onlylive2ice 42M
45 posts
10/7/2015 2:04 am

    Quoting mufasawc1:
    WHAT THE FUCK? Messages from Passion
    Passion
    To improve the Gold Membership experience, reading and replying to messages are now limited to upgraded accounts. Upgrade to Gold and get full contact access including unlimited messaging, flirts, chat, and live webcams.
    Icebreaker messages can still be read by both Gold and Standard members.
    10/5/2015 9:15 pm... your holding email hostage to get more people to pay?
    your gonna run everyone off the site with this. who the fuck thought this was a good idea? i am seeing pissed off member in the chat rooms already.
    you are running this once good site into the ground trying to milk every last penny out of it!!!!
HERE HERE!
Can't even RESPOND to Gold Memebers that send me messages... What sense does that make?? How is that improving the experience of the Gold Memeber exactly?
Can't even read OLD messages recieved weeks or years ago.
Very classy.


daretoknowme6969 43M
45 posts
10/15/2015 7:03 am

i was a member with an old account. not likeing that we can no longer respond to emails sent to us by other members. it use to be you couldnt send an email out but you could respond to any that where sent to you. standard members hardly have anything we can do. its almost pointless to be on this site when everything just points you to upgrade and now theres only gold membership.


nakedtanners 61M/59F
83 posts
10/18/2015 11:42 am

Here is some simple math for you, Passion one year / 12 month membership $180.00. Lifetime membership on another Swing LifeStyle site $169.00.
Free members have limited photo viewing and e-mail privileges. They are allowed in chat rooms on the Instant messenger and webcam chats.
Anyone can set-up dates or parties on the local calendar feature and the e-mail works.

We'll give you two guess where we spend our $$$.

We wouldn't be surprised if they don't have the stones to post this.

nakedtanners


Life is Short. ...... Play Naked.


aligaga 99M
333 posts
10/23/2015 8:36 pm

Would you please ever in the future poll the users whether they want some "improvements" or not, BEFORE making any major "improvements" again and again that decrease the usability of the site?

I'm sure you wont, so I'm thinking about NOT upgrading my membership BUT retiring from the site for ever.


pleaseurass69 55M
83 posts
1/9/2016 8:10 pm

Please explain to me why someone should purchase a gold membership, when the only people that can read a message that you send them, is other gold members.

All you're doing with your new rules concerning memberships, is a big money grab.

Good luck on that.


MyDreamsCumTrue 68M/62F  
81 posts
5/12/2016 2:50 pm

Hi Andrew,

The message categories are still extremely slow, and for most of us, not really useful. How hard is it to create a drop-down list box to select something and then it just shows up?!?!

And someone went and messed up the word wrap when viewing messages. How did that happen??


Cancer6962 61M
267 posts
1/30/2019 7:11 am

    Quoting nakedtanners:
    Here is some simple math for you, Passion one year / 12 month membership $180.00. Lifetime membership on another Swing LifeStyle site $169.00.
    Free members have limited photo viewing and e-mail privileges. They are allowed in chat rooms on the Instant messenger and webcam chats.
    Anyone can set-up dates or parties on the local calendar feature and the e-mail works.

    We'll give you two guess where we spend our $$$.

    We wouldn't be surprised if they don't have the stones to post this.

    nakedtanners
The competition not only gives more bang for the buck. I have never heard about them getting hacked for their member list and payment information. Unfortunately, Various Inc. can not say that.

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